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The days are long gone that cohabitation without marriage was a scandalous, immoral proposition. Data compiled by the U.S. Census Bureau reveals that more heterosexual and same-sex couples choose to enjoy unmarried relationships than ever before, with 13 and 30 percent increases in the respective groups from 2009-10. However, even as cohabitation becomes more mainstream, these relationships aren’t immune to conflict. As such, it’s just as important to plan for a break-up as it is for engaged...   Read more ...  

It may not be the most romantic topic of conversation, but having a realistic, honest conversation about premarital agreements may be the best decision you make. While prenups have traditionally been viewed unfavorably by soon-to-be spouses who would never even consider getting a divorce, there are multiple benefits that can be achieved through the use of a prenup. It’s essential to comply with legal requirements and understand the effect of the document, which is why you should discuss your c...   Read more ...  

Establishing paternity means making someone the legal father of a child, along with all the responsibilities and privileges that come with that status. It is often necessary to do when children are born outside of official marriages. Completing the process successfully grants children and parents rights equal to those of married families. Please do not use anything in this article as legal advice. Also, please know that you may have already taken the first step by filling out some forms at the h...   Read more ...  

Getting a divorce close to retirement is often significantly different from getting one when you have your whole career ahead of you. You will probably have to deal with some unique situations, so please do not use this article as legal advice. You should involve an attorney and probably also an accountant or financial planner, when making these decisions.   That said, there is some good news: Divorcing near retirement often means less complexity surrounding your children. However, there is...   Read more ...  

  Published in the Tuesday September 18, 2019 edition of the Chicago Daily Law Bulletin   What sets successful lawyers apart? Maybe, in some cases, it is sharp legal skills and tight billing practices. However, I believe success in the competitive business side of law, especially when attracting clients and expanding networks, is often due to strong soft skills.   Soft skills are the non-legal, non-accounting and often non-quantifiable tools in your briefcase.   You probably...   Read more ...  

Yes — people date after divorce. Some start during the divorce process, although that timing could carry some risk, especially if one spends marital income or property on or for the person they are dating.   During my practice as a divorce lawyer in Chicago and the suburbs, I have been lucky enough to see all types of relationships grow and thrive. When you are ready to date, there are a few things you ought to know from a legal perspective. However, each situation has had its own unique ...   Read more ...